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What do I need to know before bringing a new puppy home?
Who can fathom the mind of a puppy?
Squirrels drive them crazy, garbage is their favorite snack, and immediately
after chewing your one-of-a-kind, handmade leather jacket into confetti, they
can give you a look of such innocent love and adoration that you forget all
about it. This kind of behavior can baffle and frustrate even the most
conscientious of dog owners, and rightfully so. When you bring a puppy home, she
becomes part of your family; you need to be able to trust her with your home,
your belongings, and even your children. That's why controlling your puppy's
behavior is the key to having a peaceful relationship with her.
To have a dog that makes a good,
dependable companion, you're going to have to spend some time training. There's
no other way for your puppy to know that chewing on an old knotted sweat sock is
acceptable, for example, while chewing on the Irish lace tablecloth is not. She
needs to be taught appropriate behavior calmly, gently, and--most
important--consistently. As soon as you get your pup, you can start teaching her
how to obey you, how to act around people and other dogs, and generally to be
the best-behaved dog ever.
Though we'll never know exactly what
your pooch is thinking when she chases her tail until she gets dizzy, we do have
some insight into how dogs think about relationships. Wild dogs live and hunt in
packs, and to your dog, you and the other members of your family are fellow pack
members. This is an important model, because in every pack there are structured
power relationships between members. If dogs have no dominant--or
"alpha"--leader in their human "pack," if they learn that they can jump up on
the couch when they want, drag you down the street on the leash, and get treats
when they beg for them, some of them may decide they are running the show.
Puppies who are never disciplined may begin aggressively testing their
boundaries when they reach doggy adolescence. They may start ignoring commands,
jumping up where they're not supposed to jump, and protecting their food or
their "territory" with growls. In extreme cases, they can begin biting.
In order to have a peaceful,
manageable relationship with your dog, it's important that you establish your
position as the leader from the beginning. You do not have to use physical
intimidation to do so, however. Some trainers have recommended that owners
establish their dominance through a show of physical force ranging from an alpha
roll--flipping a dog over so her belly is exposed--to actually biting a dog on
the muzzle. This can leave a dog feeling threatened and defensive, and may even
provoke an attack. You don't need to raise your voice either; shouting can also
make dogs nervous and provoke aggression.
The fact is, these aggressive
displays of dominance aren't necessary. Most dogs are perfectly happy submitting
to a leader; they actually gain confidence and a sense of security from having
someone to follow. The job of a good pack leader is to project a sense of
strength by using a deep, steady voice, reacting calmly to situations that make
the dog nervous, and giving rewards only for good behavior. Training your dog to
sit and lie down is helpful as well. Having her repeatedly take a lower,
submissive position at your command reinforces your dominant position. If you're
still having a hard time, ask your veterinarian about special exercises designed
to establish your dominance without aggression.
Training is a gradual process, and
it can be a difficult road to walk alone. It's important that your entire family
commits to a training plan, that you all agree to respond the same way when your
dog misbehaves as well as when she behaves perfectly. Remember, when you train,
you need to be persistent, and above all, patient. Your puppy's going to make a
lot of mistakes, and she may just destroy a few of your belongings, but she's
mostly just eager to please you. She needs your love, attention, and guidance to
be the good dog you know she can be.
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